“We ain’t forcing no vibes. We falling back.”
I was scrolling through Facebook the other day and came across this MESSAGE. Immediately my thought was how it was a whole MOOD.
That thought turned into a deeper idea of how much more time and space we’d have for the things that brought us joy if we weren’t forcing our selves into:
relationships.
situationships.
jobs that suck the life out of us.
doing for others simply because we lack the ability to say NO.
Consider how we lie to ourselves and say that we don’t have time for things that rank HIGH on our Joy Factor.
The truth is we don’t allow ourselves time for those things. But we’ll squeeze, contort, and force our way into doing things that don’t serve us.
I know there are things you want to accomplish over the next 12 months.
Whether you’ve taken the time to write them out, or if they’re still hanging out in your head— the only way to make them happen is to clear space for them.
And that means we’ll need to fall back in some areas.
I want to challenge you to take some time to consider WHERE you can fall back to make space.
And then go take up space that adds soul-stirring adventure back into your life.
AFFIRMATION OF THE WEEK:
I am setting boundaries for my own wellbeing, not to control or punish others.
–– N
P.S. Here are 3 active ways to add more JOY and SOUL-STIRRING ADVENTURE to your life in 2020!
1. It’s not too late to join me and the Color Outside Community in Utah for our next Pop of Color.
Our next Pop of Color is the perfect way to step out of your comfort zone and add some soul-stirring joy to your life! Join us at the gorgeous Sundance Mountain Resort on February 8th for a day filled with fun winter adventures & serious personal growth. Snag your seat here.
2. Join the Color Outside Community and connect with women of color creating more colorful, adventurous lives.
If you’re not already a part of the Color Outside FB Group, what are you waiting for? We always have fun and exciting news to share with you, so be sure to check in with us often for all the deets!
3. Work with me privately.
If you’d like to work directly with me to help you live a more colorful & carefree life, just reply to this message and let me know. Tell me a little about your life and what you’d like to work on together, and I’ll get you all the details on my coaching program!